You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.
We attract who we are and to attract better relationships we must work on ourselves first. When we alter the way we look at things, change our attitude and behavior, a shift occurs. Transformation begins within, when we clear out the baggage that no longer belongs, which no longer serves, and is no longer beneficial for our well-being. It starts with eliminating negativity from our lives altogether. Before we can entice harmonious interactions, we have to change the way we perceive ourselves. If you can’t accept who you are, how will others accept you?
Your mind is a magnet. You don’t attract what you need or what you want; you attract who you are. And I love who I am!
When we make a firm decision to take the necessary steps to move in the right direction, this enables us to write a better story. And through expressing love and gratitude in all things, something great happens not only within us but outside of us. Most importantly, the more committed we are to maintaining a positive attitude, belief, and manner regardless of the situations we face, the more likely we are to experience success. Ultimately, we discover everything changes for the better once we become a better version of who we once were. We now attract what we seek. When we nurture special connections with loving-kindness and positive communications, we restore the harmonious balance, which yields positive life-change.
If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.
BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO ATTRACT
What’s important to note is when you take an active part in building the life you want, something special takes place. When you support, encourage, and respect all who cross your path with patience, understanding, and forgiveness you sustain precious ties. Without nurturance, relationships have the tendency to fall to the way-side because of our inability to trust. These relationships now lost, never recover, and will be difficult to reconcile. Unfortunately we end up living with regret. Regretful over what we could have and should have done… but didn’t.
However, when we take a moment we realize there is always a valuable life lesson, a lesson that can change everything. We learn we have control over our thoughts, actions, and our attitude. And in this positive state of knowing and of being, we can create stronger bonds. Bonds which not only last a lifetime but where we build a new foundation that can support all of the fond memories we create together.
The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude.
7 comments
A very nice read!
Great blog, I look forward to seeing it develop over time.
Glad you like it. The site was meant to be an author landing page only, while I work on my manuscripts. But because I love to write, it has become more.
Greetings! Very helpful advice! It’s the little changes that will make the most important changes. Thanks a lot for sharing!
You’re welcome. I take pleasure in writing these posts, so when someone finds them helpful, I’m very grateful. Thank-you.
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Thank-you for bringing this to my attention. I didn’t know I was on Yahoo News, and have no idea on how to get listed; however, I’m sure there’s information out there. Glad you’re enjoying my website.