I’m by no means a relationship expert. Although, I know it’s difficult to be everything to everyone. Case in point, when individuals aren’t happy with themselves how will they ever be content with anything in life, especially with you? Folks may be up one moment and down the next. On edge, teeter-tottering through life, clinging to their emotional baggage and holding everyone except themselves accountable. As a result, they create rules, which you must follow.
When all is said and done, it will be all about you. What you said. What you didn’t say. What you could have said. What you did, didn’t do or should have done. Well, you get my drift. Everything ends up on your shoulders because they will never take responsibility for their actions. When people blame you for their own problems, they play by their own set of rules. The rules they relentlessly create are the same rules they themselves break. Sometimes they will recite the rules and other times they will expect you to rehearse them.
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
We can’t please everyone because that isn’t the purpose for our existence. Happiness is an inside job. The key to finding inner happiness begins when you listen to your heart. It will always guide you and never set you astray. As soon as you resolve to disengage from the melodrama, you reclaim independence. The sooner you refuse interaction with souls who seek only to fulfill their selfish motives by dragging you into their chaos, the sooner you discover freedom. This freedom leads to peace of mind.
PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR INTUITION
We know when something doesn’t work, doesn’t fit or makes little sense. Our intuition spells it out for us revealing what’s right and what isn’t. More often than not, we are somewhere in between right and wrong. The right or wrong assumption. The right or wrong behavior. The right or wrong pursuit… and that’s okay. It’s okay to be somewhere in the middle of what we want and what we don’t. When centered, we know it’s time for us to grow. By avoiding the drama, skipping someone else’s version of how we should live… life just gets better.
So why not create your own set of rules?
FOUR RULES TO LIVE BY, WHICH YOU CAN PHASE-IN
Rule One: Accept Life’s Ebbs and Flows.
Rule Two: Live in Harmony.
Rule Three: Settle with Equanimity.
Rule Four: Step into Spiritual Bliss.
Just be… where you need to be, to feel most at peace because that is where you will find ultimate well-being and happiness.
I follow three rules: Do the right thing, do the best you can, and always show people you care.
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