There are great dates and unpleasant dates, but what about those middle-of-the-road dates? The so-so dates you don’t understand because they are on another page in a different chapter. Good dates have the potential for long-term consideration. When we meet the right one who stands by their word, who values your time, then there’s the likelihood of future success. They will make plans for the following weekend, into the following month, and well into next year.
If you’re with someone, it’s because you’re moving in the same direction, and you both are looking for the same thing. Both of you have to share the same concept of what a relationship means.
Do you wait? Wait for the phone to ring, and it doesn’t? Wait no more. If someone is into you, they will ask you out and call to hear your voice. The real thing is when someone picks up the phone. Perhaps they will follow it up later that day with a text or two.
IS PRIME TIME RESERVED FOR YOU
The time spent together should be the determining factor. Are you number one on their priority list and are they at the top of yours? When the girls are out with the gals and the guys are out with the pals every Friday and Saturday night, there’s a problem. When they are nowhere in sight during these times, then there’s no need to ask whether they are into you. Because I can assure you, they aren’t. If someone likes you, they want to spend time with you.
I had a different perception of what a relationship or love is like. I was all giddy-headed and fairytale about it in my head, but it’s so different. There’s a lot of restraint that you’ve got to have, compromising in certain situations – and you’ve got to have a lot of respect.
However, what if they don’t do planning well? They have the tendency to be spontaneous for they are a spur-of-the-moment person, who loves to surprise you at strange times of the day. This leaves you having to question why. Upon review, you may note it’s during a Saturday or Sunday morning when they have the tendency of showing up unannounced at your doorstep. Spontaneity is delightful, but is it? What happened to Friday night or Saturday evening, and where were they during prime time? Obviously not with you.
RECEIVING THEIR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION
What if you had plans to meet, at a specified time and place but he didn’t show… he like, forgot? Wow… really? Picture this: you were invited to a party with all his friends present, first came the introductions, then he disappeared for the rest of the evening. What? What happens if his best friend hesitantly approached you as you stood alone, smiling, pretending all is well? And he, the friend expressed his concern, “If you were my girlfriend, I would never leave you standing alone.” A hint, perhaps. Or a piece of valuable advice that may foreshadow things to come.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
Intuition keeps telling you, but for whatever reason, you refuse to listen. Then you somehow convince yourself that everything is peachy keen when it isn’t. We call this denial when someone keeps themselves in suspense by failing to acknowledge the truth. Why are you trying to make a head versus heart decision on whether someone is or isn’t into you? If questioning any relationship than you know it’s not the right relationship.
It’s time to stop rationalizing someone’s behavior. I can tell you when someone cares there wouldn’t be a need to have this kind of thought running through your mind. If someone likes you, there will be no need to have a dialogue about whether they do or don’t. Never. Not with your friends, his friends, your family or with yourself. There’s no need to second guess. Anyone into you, you will know, because you will receive their undivided attention. They call not only for the purpose of calling but to tell you when they intend to see you again. When you are the right one, you will know. Everyone will know. There will be no doubt.
NO SECOND GUESSING WHEN IT COMES TO THE RIGHT ONE
When someone’s into you, they are into you no matter what and are in wholeheartedly. You can count on them. They will be where they say they will be, at the specified time, and place. In fact, they will even show up early to ensure you don’t wait. At the party, they will be the one standing by your side. You never have to wonder when or if they will call. When a relationship is healthy, it’s never complicated.
When into you, they will be there for you. No one is ever too busy to make time for someone they love. You are their priority, and they will schedule time with you. In their mind and in their heart you are it, the right one. And there’s nothing that will stop them from making plans with you regardless of how busy life gets.
There are no secrets, nothing held back, all the cards are on the table. The feelings they have will be openly displayed, leaving you never questioning the relationship. You will never have to second guess. There’s an unmistakable comfort level each will have for one another. You know it’s special as they are by your side. When someone has deep feelings for you, they sacrifice time with others for more time with you. If it’s real, you will feel it, see it, and appreciate it to be what it is and what it isn’t.
If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.
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