After healing, we enter a transformative period, when a shift takes place emotionally. The energetic shift, equips us to place ourselves in alignment with a person who’s in tune with where we’re at. But before we get carried away by this, there is one thing to know. Healing is important, and it’s essential after any challenge, following a breakup, and especially after a heartbreak. The key is knowing how to get on with life and love.
What does it mean to walk through a love storm unscathed? The fact is we’re vulnerable. We have feelings, and the question alone could very well mean, if we take back our power, there’s healing. This is followed by a successful outcome. This is when we have to leave someone that is no good for us so we can travel toward someone who is.
A broken heart is just the growing pains necessary so that you can love more completely when the real thing comes along.
If we don’t take the time to heal, we may fall into a trap of meeting someone who mimics the one who hurt us in the past. Sadly, we tend to fall into the same predicament, believing the same things, and caught up in familiar patterns, whenever it comes to love. However, with this said, this is just a blog post, and I’m just a blogger. What do I know? Well, what I do know is what we all know. And that is nobody knows you better than you.
YOU KNOW WHEN IT’S TIME TO GET ON WITH LIFE AND IN TOUCH WITH LOVE
We know when something fits into our world and when it doesn’t. And we know when we’re happy and when we aren’t. We know. Sometimes a shakeup occurs because we are meant to take a different road, to get to a different place, so we can meet a different person. And with every abrupt change, it triggers something heartfelt where we gain a new perspective of what we need to change for us to attract someone better.
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
When we grow, we change, and when we change, we grow. We all dream of a healthy, vibrant, stable relationship, a connection we are happy to share life with because we feel valued. Whether we go through the motions of love or if we fall out of love, regardless, it’s hard to leave. What I don’t understand is why. Why is it hard to leave someone unworthy of your time and attention, the one who delivers nothing but grief?
The thing is, we have to leave what no longer brings us peace. For this is where we struggle to find happiness. To stay in conflict keeps us miserable and this doesn’t make sense. This is when time apart or on your own, will help you reflect on what’s important. The time alone, will be time well spent. As with any recovery period, it helps us get on with life and in touch with love.