You can change the circumstances of your life. It’s a matter of deciding what kind of life you want to lead. You get out of life what you create. Then there are those life lessons. Lessons you will have repeated until you come to some understanding. Once you master what you learned, you move on to the next lesson. But we get stuck in a mental prison where the only way out is to change something in our lives. There has to be more to life than rehashing all those things that didn’t go well or are not emotionally fulfilling. If something makes little sense or isn’t satisfying, stop and ask why. Something has to give, and it begins with you. It’s essential to choose you. Change what needs changing.
Stuck in an unpleasant story prevents something greater from taking place and will only have you going in circles. Nevertheless, if you know you have to get off this track, then exit stage left.
Go for the dream.
Go for the wish.
Why not head toward your happiness?
Seek what’s emotionally fulfilling.
Go for what is meaningful.
Focus on a new project, a new venture, or an adventure.
What can you do differently?
CHOOSE YOU
Process every thought and feeling.
Write it in your journal. Somewhere between the lines, you will receive the answers you need, where you are clear and understand what you need to do to get the most out of life. In addition, what are you accepting that is no longer beneficial? What stays and what goes? Focus on rebalancing your life. Choose you and live your truth.
The most important thing is this: to be able at any moment to be free to choose a life that makes you happy.
If caught up in an old situation that is seemingly stuck on replay, why not redirect what needs redirecting? When we dance with indecision, we go nowhere. The key is to sow new seeds and nurture growth. If you are feeling out of sorts, see it as a wake-up call.
Take the initiative.
Refocus and watch something take root.
Go for what you need the most. It’s usually those things that are meaningful.
Why limit what you can do?
Choose the things you love. Start somewhere, why not start with you? Choose you.
Understand that your life is created by you, for you.
Move beyond those self-imposed restrictions. These are things that impede success.
Listen to your heart.
Follow your dreams.
List those things that make you happy.
Reach out and ask for what it is you want and need.
Shift your perspective and discover solutions.
Readjust your focus and watch as your life changes.
CREATE THE LIFE YOU LOVE
Why settle uncomfortably in places where you feel powerless. Follow what you know to be right. Manifest the dream. Create a vision. Trust yourself, and through self-love and self-respect, you will usher in blessings. We know what it takes to flourish. However, old patterns keep us where we are, perhaps where things aren’t so great. You have the opportunity for a happier life. If part of you feels it’s time to get something right, why hold back? This will only prevent you from achieving what is possible. We juggle the “should we, shouldn’t we,” until we drop whatever it is altogether. Everything in life is in constant motion. Life doesn’t wait. With or without you, life goes on. We create insecurity and instability. We create our reality, then we ask, how did I get here?
To choose not to choose is still a choice for which you alone are responsible.
Finish one cycle and move on to the next. The next phase turns up when we take the next step toward building a better life. We are no longer stuck, looking back. Instead, we leave what once was and opt for a shift of perspective. You have the freedom to choose an alternative, a new direction, a new you. In a nutshell, it’s you choosing you by loving you, respecting you until you finally grasp what your life means to you. It’s you making the best of every moment and doing what it takes to get to where you need to be.
REBALANCE
You can fine-tune your life. When you are in harmony with how you think and feel, and with what you decide to do, something exceptional will show up. Love the life you are empowered to create. Self-love is you nurturing the spiritual light within you, which gifts you with the freedom that leads to understanding. Understanding that once you let go, you can then move on. Be who you have to be, so you can go to where you have to go. Once your choices and decisions come from a better place, you will never have the desire to look back but look ahead. Your dreams are not behind you, they are in front of you.
You were put on this earth to achieve your greatest self, to live out your purpose, and to do it courageously.