Convincing Someone to Love you?|Loving Someone who isn’t Loving you

Sometimes there’s no choice but to move on because you’re tired of convincing someone you are the one. Are you loving someone who isn’t loving you? Are you convincing someone to love you? It’s difficult to meet someone new during an unsettled time. But there’s hope. Is a better relationship what you long for, wish for, and pray for? Have you taken it a step further and listed their characteristics and personality traits? Do you write these things in your diary or journal? Discuss it with your friends? Perhaps it’s on your mind and filed away in your heart, believing it’s never going to happen. But love can become a reality. Nothing happens if we don’t make it happen. 

However, with that said, we have to face our challenges and approach situations with confidence. It may mean that we learn to read between the lines, so we don’t miss out on those red flags we missed in the past. We may not have what it takes to start over. So knowing this, what’s next? Figure out your options. Look at closing out a chapter, and what no longer works, work toward something that does. Become a better version of you. We attract who we are. When confident, secure, and optimistic, we move on with ease. 

CONVINCING SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU? WHY WASTE TIME?

When we leave what we construe as the comfort zone, move outside of our bad habits, and lackluster routines, we may find the love we are seeking. If you are ok with what’s not working, you only repeat the cycle of unhappiness. The thing is, if you wait, you can wait your life away. It’s not worth staying in limbo, fretting over what the current relationship is or isn’t. Find what works best for you and get on with life. Heal, learn, grow, and do something creative. You create your story. Grasp what went off track. It pays to understand what went wrong so you won’t repeat it. What matters is getting past the stuff that keeps you stuck and to learn from the experience. Why are you wasting time trying to convince someone to love you?

Whenever one door closes, another is sure to open. When you work at being the best you, you no longer have to question why the relationship isn’t working. Your confidence and self-reliance will encourage you to take a hard left from unhappiness to happiness. This is where you are no longer falling into the negativity trap, convinced you aren’t worthy. And no longer retracing your steps to where things didn’t work. A better version of you will attract someone who relishes the relationship.

A BLESSING IN DISGUISE

The silent emotional exit, where love grew cold is a telltale sign of a not so great relationship. If they arrived at the party with you and left without you, oh well, such is life. Learn to take it in stride and don’t let the emotional baggage get in your way. Within time, you will meet someone who will be more than happy to be a new dance partner. End a sad story and create a happier one. Go with the flow and embrace the change. Put on some sensible shoes, change the music, and dance only with the one who loves to dance with you. Why something didn’t work the way you hoped is a blessing in disguise. You shouldn’t have to convince anyone that you are “the one.” Now get creative and find someone who can love you the way you love them.