We know. We are aware when things aren’t working out the way they should. However, it takes some of us longer than others before we can utter that word… enough. Sometimes it takes a long time before we receive the wake-up call. Finally putting an end to vexing interactions and noting just how unhealthy they are. Not only are these connections damaging to our physical state but harmful to our mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
Once we accept the story for what it is and remove ourselves from the storyline, we experience positive change. It’s difficult to let go. But it’s good to free ourselves from those who do nothing but suppress joy, steal peace, and create disharmony. When letting go, we experience less drama, which leads to a better life. A marked improvement from the way it was, not only within the context of the relationship but with one’s overall happiness.
When it’s time for me to walk away from something, I walk away from it. My mind, my body, my conscience tell me that enough is enough.
YOUR HEART IS INTUITIVE AND KNOWS WHEN YOU HAD ENOUGH
It’s important to stop and consider what our heart is trying to tell us each time we go through the commotion. It’s when we take the time to understand who we are then we can garner the strength and confidence to say, “enough.” “I had enough.” “I am enough.” We need not keep company with those who repeatedly tear us down. We learn. We learn to stop appeasing those who demand others cater to their every whim. Eventually realizing that just because someone else finds us guilty doesn’t mean we are. Ultimately, we understand our role doesn‘t include being responsible for not meeting someone’s unrealistic expectations. We aren’t accountable for someone else’s happiness or unhappiness.
You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.
With relationships, everyone plays an essential role. Besides, it’s up to us to figure out what’s important and what isn’t, to keep in mind that it’s a two-way street. If it ends up being a one-way lane, then we decide whether we should or shouldn’t continue along that path. No one ever gets ahead traveling the wrong way on a one-way. Every step further from disharmony leads to the bliss we seek. Blissful relationships stem from unconditional love, acceptance, and respect. Accepting people for who they are, respecting the differences, and loving them unconditionally. Everyone eventually gets to a point when enough is simply enough.